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Shirley Ann
Werling
Apr 8, 1940 — Jul 4, 2026
Thursday
First United Methodist Church
11:00 am - 12:00 pm (Pacific time)
A light in a dark world, Shirley brought comfort to all who knew her. Family and friends alike will remember her sunny disposition, helping hands, and unwavering love for Jesus.
Warmth radiated from her as she cared for the people around her. Serving God by serving His people was how she chose to spend her days. From Knit-a-Prayer and Sew-n-Sews to Bible studies and visiting shut-ins, her list of “get-tos” was always full. That was the beautiful thing about Shirley—her days weren’t filled with things she had to do, but with things she got to do. She found genuine joy in serving others.
Shirley’s hands served in countless ways. She was a gifted pianist who taught piano for 50 years, sharing not only music but a lifelong love of it with generations of students. Alongside her daughter and granddaughters, she created porcelain dolls that earned top honors at the Kern County Fair. She was a talented seamstress, making beautiful dresses, costumes, pajamas, and embroidered keepsakes that turned the ordinary into something extraordinary. Knitting became both a passion and a ministry, and she treasured writing handwritten notes that reminded others they were loved and remembered.
Her heart, however, belonged first to her family. She delighted in being a wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and great-great grandmother and some of her happiest moments were spent gathered with those she loved. Whether celebrating milestones, offering encouragement, or simply sharing everyday moments, she made each person feel valued and cherished.
Traveling was another joy she shared with her beloved husband, Glen. One of her favorite adventures was tracing her ancestry back to the American Revolution. Her love of history and heritage was reflected in her membership in the Daughters of the American Revolution. She was also a devoted member of Altrusa and the Order of the Eastern Star, organizations through which she continued her lifelong commitment to service and fellowship. Yet no destination held her heart quite like the beach. It was their happy place, where they spent countless summers making treasured memories with their children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.
As dementia gradually took away her ability to enjoy many of the things she loved, the memories that shaped her life remained. She found comfort in reminiscing about childhood with her sister, and the story of meeting Glen through a blind date arranged by her best friend became a cherished memory she returned to whenever the disease brought confusion or frustration.
When a light goes out, the world feels a little darker. Shirley’s light may no longer shine among us, but because she touched so many lives, her legacy lives on in those she leaves behind. As we carry her kindness, her faith, and her love into the lives of others, the world will grow brighter because of the light she shared.
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